Cool, Calm, and Collected

Gloria’s bathroom basin and vanity

Actually, I had to choose between two titles for this entry. The one above was supposed to be Cool, Calm, and Collected — NOT!! but there wasn’t room for the complete title. The runner-up title, even longer, was: How Powerful Are Our Thoughts Actually?

Here’s the story:

Keith, my daughter’s husband, wanted to remodel my bathroom. He bought the most beautiful vanity and sink you ever saw, bamboo flooring, clear shower doors, new towel bars, new electrical fixtures. He painted the bathroom a beautiful yellow. Clearly, I was going to have the most beautiful bathroom in the world.

I don’t know about you, but when there is work being done in my house, I get a bit discombobulated. You have to understand that everything that had been in my bathroom was now in my living-room — the contents of four drawers, a medicine cabinet, and an overflowing clothes and linen closet. Furthermore, there was a saw horse in my kitchen, and electric saws and all, and sawdust, and my usual paths were obstructed. Funnily enough, the sawdust brought out the immaculate housekeeper in me. I swept about ten times a day, making up for lost time.

But what really made me tense was that I had house guests coming. Larry and Carol from Montana who had sponsored a Godwriting workshop in Great Falls, were riding on their Harley all the way to Iowa to visit, so I was in a little panic that the remodeling might not be done before they arrived. You realize, half the time the power was off. The other half, the water. And meanwhile, no real bathroom facilities.

And I wanted everything finished several days before Larry and Carol got here so I would have time to get everything nicely clean and organized!!!

If you have ever had remodeling done, you know there are always delays.

First, the store had supplied one box of the correct bamboo flooring, and two boxes that obviously belonged to a different customer.

To hasten things along, on the theory that two people can get work done faster than one, Keith hired a plumber to help out. The idea that two can do more work faster turned out to be a fallacy, however, because it took longer! The plumber couldn’t find the cause of a leak in the sink drain. He never did, however, for Keith found that the leak was not in the drain. The leak was in the pipes the plumber had improperly installed, and so Keith had to take all the plumbing apart and start over again.

And now I come to an explanation for the second title, How Powerful Are Our Thoughts Actually?

Just as I was chewing my nails in a complete frenzy, I received this email from Carol:

Hi Gloria. We had to change our plans and will go through N. Dak. instead of WY due to flooding — main highway closed today because the Little Big Horn River went over its banks and took out a dike. We’ll be coming down through Minnesota instead of going through South Dakota. This makes us a bit behind. We’ll arrive in Fairfield on Thursday instead of Wed. Sorry for the delay.

Much love,
Larry & Carol

Could my thoughts have caused the Little Big Horn River to overflow and take out a dike?!!!

And, if yes, can anyone ever again doubt in the existence of a kindly God?

Gloria’s bathroom shower with clear doors

Posted by Gloria on June 20th, 2007 under these topics
Purely Personal, Godwriting Journal

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18 Replies

Reply from Trish on June 20, 2007

Purdy powerful stuff! I’m not sure I’d want to be letting folks know I caused all that flooding. LOVE the vanity. It sounds like it is going to be a beautiful, cool, calm and perhaps even collected bathroom. Someday. And when is it you are leaving it all for Argentina? Hummm… LOL

Reply from Jack van Raders on June 21, 2007

I know how you feel Gloria. Mieke wants the house painted.so after long discussions i got some color charts. After a lot of more discussions. I ordered and bought the paint for the roof. Now what color goes with the paint on the roof. After a while a off white with some red in it. O.K. bought the paint and the colors to stain it into the desired color. now what about the trim after a while that was sorted out and bought. Now my water blaster packed up and a new part is on its way. So when the roof and walls are water blasted and all is ready to be painted I might start thinking about getting some paintbrushes. When I have them I have to get some filler for some parts of the wall and overhang and in the meantime we are 6 month further and when the rain is finished and the part of the water blaster installed I might consider starting. By that time it will be summer here and possibly to warm to go on the roof. Who said anything about procrastinating??? Have I ever mentioned I like to take it easy. enjoy your Bathroom and your visitors. Love , Jack

Reply from Pam (fortheloveofGodde) on June 22, 2007

BEAUTIFUL vanity … are you taking it with you?? LOL.

Re: your thoughts–we’d all better plan our trips to Argentina when there isn’t any construction going on!

And, Jack, too funny. I’ve got a trick for that–I start doing whatever project it is that my husband has put off, and I do it BADLY. Drives him nuts and he finally gets it done! Of course, he’s tried that one on me as well, and sometimes it’s worked.

Gloria, hope everything is back in working order. Looks great from the pictures! Have fun with your

Reply from Gloria on June 23, 2007

Yes, everything is in good working order now.

Yet I did have guests arrive while there was sawdust all over everything. And the guests still left with the same sawdust over everything.

The bathroom is immaculate. It has become my favorite thing to make the new bathroom sparkle. I defy you to find a speck of dust or anything out of place — in the bathroom.

As much as I appreciate this new bathroom, Argentina offers greater rewards.

And, anyway, don’t you know that as soon as something becomes perfect, you have to leave it!!!!

With love and blessings,

Gloria

Reply from wmNmary on June 23, 2007

Some day soon I will have a website. First I must find what is wanted and needed by those that could benefit from another in the flood of websites. Something of value I trust. Then comes the task of finding a competent webmeister - Today’s world is built with broken straws - we have dikes but they break; we hire expensive craftsman, but they oft times do more harm than good; we elect politicians to keep the peace, but… The missing word in the world is “Responsibility”. Full responsibility few can imagine. It is not blame! It is not “the reason for” - Responsibility for ones self, family, group or nation, for other life forms and the planet. It is an important idea that when ignored or shunned breed chaos and destruction. In case there be any doubt take a good look at the earth today compared with but 50 years ago. Better or worse? You be the judge. We must all do something about it - Competence and responsibility are steps on the way to happiness and a brighter civilization.

Wm
(I honor any thoughts or questions)

Reply from Gloria on June 23, 2007

You sure make some good points, Wm. Responsibility. Also called accountability, I believe. Like that plumber wasn’t a great plumber. He worked hard, but didn’t deliver.

From my side, it gets to be too much trouble to bother about it further. Take the loss and be free. Of course, I don’t know what Keith will do.

I’m sure 50 years ago was better in some ways, but so is now. And we live now.

I kinda think we have to treat the world like children. If we want the best from them, we’d better give them a lot of appreciation for their strengths.

I, for one, wouldn’t be without the computer! We couldn’t really have Heavenletters without the computer.

I, myself, have found volunteers the most conscientious and caring and giving of themselves. I haven’t observed that paying someone a lot of money gets greater results.
A million dollars wouldn’t bring kinder people nor more caring gifted people. They don’t exist, I think. The volunteers that God has blessed Heavenletters with are perfect, far beyond what one could expect. They have exceeded all expectations that anyone could have had.

I sure hope you find someone great to help you create your website, Wm. Creating a website is quite a technique for self-discovery.

With love and blessings,
Gloria

Reply from Jack van Raders on June 24, 2007

Gloria, When it is perfect you have to leave it?????? I used to be vain but now I am Perfect and enjoying live in paradise with an almost perfect weather and we can perfectly ignore the Government because there is so much LOVE around us here. Now is better than 50 years ago when I had to go away to sea and leave my beloved wife behind. Now she goes out to play Bridge if she gets enough from her perfect husband. C.U next time and LOVE you all Jack

Reply from Gloria on June 24, 2007

Well, Jack, we all love you!

It just seems to be in my life that, when everything is kind of perfect in house decorating, then it’s time for me to move on.

Actually, I knew I was moving on before this perfect bathroom materialized.

I once lived in a Victorian house with gorgeous stained glass windows and a bathroom with marble walls and marble floor and a claw-foot tub — its own perfection — but the physical charm just isn’t enough to keep me there.

Maybe i’m a nomad, dear.

With love and blessings,
Gloria

Reply from Carol Maurer on June 24, 2007

Hi Gloria and everyone,

I didn’t notice any sawdust! What did you do with the sawdust? The bathroom is lovely, but so was everything because it was GLORIA’S HOME and it was a blessing to be there together. I must find a similar birdsong/water sounds machine like you have, so wonderfully soothing, like having summer or paradise in the background all the time. Next time we visit it will no doubt be Argentina, or Albuquerque where Larry and I are moving — but God says there’s really no such thing as separation and we have the Internet to keep us in touch with one another.

Gloria, please post your recipe for eggplant parmesan. It was wonderful!

Blessings to all,
Carol

Reply from Jack van Raders on June 24, 2007

Dear All

Yes we are always moving on in life one way or another. I have roamed around the world for 45 years as a seaman not as a nomad I like sea travel better than any other way of travel.
A funny thing though where ever you travel you meet the same you only many a time a bit wiser.
All is beautiful and enjoy all as much as possible. Love you all Jack

Reply from Gloria on June 25, 2007

Dear Carol,

When I say sawdust all over everything, I mean sawdust DUST. There was a layer over everything in the kitchen area, on the bookshelves filled with seashells, casserole dishes, wooden bowls, jars filled with all manner of things, the floors — all with layer of dust. Fortunately, Carol, you had left your white gloves at home.

I’m still getting the dust off, still sorting out things. More company is arriving tomorrow, and still much more to do.

But the new bathroom is now an oasis of cleanliness and order. When you arrived, the bathroom sink was filled with the empty boxes that the fixtures had come in!

I am beginning to understand how cleanliness is next to Godliness!

Love you all,

Gloria

Reply from Gloria on June 26, 2007

I forgot to say:

For the eggplant Parmesan, I just took a recipe off the web.

My sister used to make an exquisite eggplant Parmesan. She said the secret is in slicing the eggplant very thin, so it is a many-layered thing.

If I had a secret to add, it would be to use sauce sparingly.

The recipes call for soaking the eggplant in water to take away any bitterness. They also said to peel the eggplant which does perhaps make it more delicate.

Although I sometimes have peeled the eggplant, I didn’t this time due to my haste. One time I did the soaking and saw no benefit.

Jack, forgive me for making a generalization, but all the good recipes are fattening.

Okay, ingredients are:

eggplant
eggs
seasoned bread crumbs
spaghetti sauce (I don’t think it matters much which kind)
grated Parmesan cheese
grated mozarella cheese
olive oil

Slice eggplant thin.

Have mixed with a fork a couple of eggs to which you add a tiny bit of water.

Dredge eggplant in beaten egg mixture.
Coat with bread crumbs.
Fry both sides in hot olive oil until tender to the fork. You have to use plenty of olive oil because the eggplant soaks it up.

Put a little sauce in bottom of cast iron pan or any baking pan really.

Add a layer of the fried eggplant. a layer of Mozarella (be generous) and Parmesan cheese.

Keep doing this.

I think I end with a little sauce, lots of mozarella cheese, and Parmesan on top.

Then bake it until browned. I forget the temperature.

Another houseguest is coming this evening for about a week.

Love you all,

Gloria

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Reply from Michelle Gabler on July 8, 2007

This is the first time I’ve visited the new bathroom. It appears to be very contemporary! No doubt, worth the wait and the non-stop sweeping… Great story about the progress of the construction. And Keith having to re-do the plumber’s work. Why does that not surprise me? Also, thanks for sharing the fab eggplant recipe!

Reply from paula on July 9, 2007

Eggplant Parmesan is my favourite food, especially when my mother-in-law makes it. Now here in Italy they cut the eggplant in thin slices and then sprinkle the slices with coarse salt and leave them there for some time. Then the salt is washed off the slices, and this takes the bitterness away.
They don’t use bread crumbs here, but they use wheet flour instead. And the mozzarella is not grated but cut in slices. And they add some small cubes of salami or ham between the layers. The sauce is simple tomato sauce, without any meat. It’s really tasty.

Reply from Gloria on July 9, 2007

Cara Paula, I shall try the wheat flour next time. And sliced cheese. I use Mozzarella but what cheese does your mother-in-law use?

American recipes tell you to salt the eggplant as you describe. I think I did it once and didn’t notice any difference. I don’t recall ever having a bitter eggplant. And, yes, a marinara sauce!

When is your mother-in-law going to have us all over for eggplant Parmesan!

Reply from paula on July 9, 2007

It’s always Mozzarella cheese. And certainly not ‘marinara’ sauce, which at least here in Italy is based on fish or mollusk. Sounds awful- a Parmesan with marinara sauce. NO, just a simple tomato sauce.

Unfortunately my mother-in-law is almost 90 years old and almost blind and deaf, so she’s not capable of doing the Parmesan anymore.

Reply from Gloria on July 9, 2007

Oops, at least I thought marinara sauce meant vegetarian sauce! In any case, I have used a simple meatless tomato sauce.

I love it how we care about our recipes and that they be kept true.

With blessings and love,

Gloria

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