Great Love

Years ago I read a story of a woman who did a great deal of good for the world. She donated millions of dollars to good causes. She gave of herself and her time to charitable work in every way you could imagine.

One time she visited a facility for severely disabled children. These children were orphans or had been abandoned by their overwhelmed parents.There was one little child that no one wanted to spend time with. The child was about one year old. She was deaf, blind, retarded and had sores that caused her to smell badly. This lady went over to this bereft child, and held her on her lap and hugged and kissed her and talked to her as if she mattered.

When this woman went to Heaven, the gates of Heaven opened for her immediately. In fact, she was ushered in ahead of everyone else there that day. She was astonished and asked why she was first. Was it the money she had given?

The angels said no.

Was it because of all the charitable work she had done?

The angels said no. It was none of those.

What was it then? she asked.

Can’t you guess? the angels said.

No, she couldn’t.

The angels finally told her: “God wanted you so honored because of the day you held the little child on your lap.�

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Obviously, that story has stuck with me. It feels so right. And yet I wonder what it is that makes this story lasting and so important to me.

Sometimes I think it is because the woman was innocent and didn’t know she had done a great thing. Sometimes I think it is because the story makes clear the difference between how the world looks at things and how God does. Sometimes I think it is because I remember my second-grade teacher who held me on her lap on my birthday, and what it meant to me, what it still means to me. Sometimes I think it is because the woman simply did an heroic thing for that little child — the woman saw a need and filled it, and was able to. I do not know that I would have been able to.

Then sometimes I think it is because that story lets me know there is much unsung kindness in this world.

And then sometimes I love the story because it shows that God lives in the woman and the little girl, and that God rises supreme, and that God really does exist and is to be believed in.

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Right after I had finished writing this, I found Pam’s response to #2468 God Loves Us on the forum. This is the dumpling Heavenletter where God pinches our cheeks etc. Pam wrote:

This first paragraph brought back such a sweet memory of my step-grandfather and our first meeting. After a long car trip from Michigan to Minnesota to our first meeting with the family of my brand-new stepfather, we certainly did not know what to expect. What I got was a man who RAN to the car, swooped me out of the backseat in a hug, then swung me around and around in circles. He won my heart. It might have been the only good thing this man had ever done in his life, but what a good thing it was for me. To me, in that moment, he was pure love. I’m feeling that hug and that dance now and forevermore in Godde’s love.

Just reading Pam’s account of this man’s wonderful love enriches me. I never knew a grandfather of any kind, and I wish this man could have been my grandfather. One swing in his arms would have lasted me a lifetime.

May all God’s children be greeted the way this man greeted Pam.

Even if this is the only good thing Pam’s stepgrandfather ever did, it was superb, surely superb enough to have earned him his place in Heaven.

Of course, from reading Heavenletters, we know we all get to Heaven. Then, I vote for this man to have a special seat of honor right up front. Okay, yes, we all sit up front anyway. Then let me be blessed to sit beside this man.

Posted by Gloria on September 1st, 2007 under these topics
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Reply from Xenia on September 1, 2007

Those moments leave a lasting impression indeed.!
Imagine the impressions that were left on the little sick boy when Princess Diana held him on her lap or the AIDS patient when she touched him or many of the other people that she ‘touched’ in some way or other. We were reminded of it yesterday, when portions of her life were mentioned.

There is also Mother Theresa, whose main drive in life was to love and comfort the sick, abandoned, lonely,…
And then, there are many, many, many others like Pam’s grandfather that have left a lasting impression at one time or another.

Thanks for bringin up this subject!
Much love,
Xenia

Reply from paula on September 2, 2007

When I read this story, I felt as if I were that child, deaf and blind and retarded and with sores, so many psychological wounds from living in this relative world, and I could feel being held and hugged. Embraced by God’s love. Like one aspect of God loving another aspect of God, that’s gone astray. This is true healing.

Reply from Jo on September 2, 2007

It only takes a moment to talk to someone “as if he/she mattered” and leave a leave a lovelight memory with that person for all time. It seems to me this is exactly how God’s love works, compelling one to connect with another without thinking about it. The angel in your story simply followed her heart directions and gave a small child exactly what she needed. I bet each and every one of us can remember moments, as Xenia did, when someone without hesitation shone their lovelight on us and left us feeling as if we mattered just when we had begun to believe that we didn’t.

Reply from Pam (fortheloveofGodde) on September 3, 2007

One of our nieces was born with cerebral palsy. She was deaf and blind. Her limbs were twisted from atrophied muscles in her legs and arms. Her wheelchair, molded to her body, looked like a medieval torture device. Her throat muscles were also restricted, meaning she couldn’t chew and swallow properly. The first eight years of her life, she ate only baby formula. Then a stomach tube was put in to allow her to gain weight.

Her parents, very young and very poor, had been encouraged to put her away. But they refused. She was their child (the middle of three children) and she was loved.

She had her sense of touch and she was able to laugh and smile. And laugh and smile she did when she was stroked and kissed and hugged. Sometimes she would just smile–at who knows what, perhaps at a joke Godde told?

She was lucky to be in a home with love. So many others are not, and these angels–the one in your story, Princess Diana, and all others who, as Jo states, “shone their lovelight” on ANYONE truly bring a miracle.

Our niece died at age 12 and we miss her.

A smile, a touch, a hug … such simple things that can have such profound effects.

Reply from Gloria on September 3, 2007

Pam, I read a book once. Don’t remember the name of it. It was given as true. It was written by two American Indian souls who said they were walk-ins. They gave an expanding perspective.

The one story I remember was of a girl who had severe epilepsy, to the extent that she had to be heavily sedated. She slept twenty hours a day. She may have been retarded. I don’t remember.

She too was in a family that absolutely loved her. She grew to adulthood and may be living still.

But here’s the point of the story. According to the authors, this girl with severe epilepsy was a very high soul. She gave great love. During her sleep, her soul traveled all over, performing great healings for the world.

The point is, whatever something may look like, we don’t know the whole story.

I suspect that your niece was an angel, and she gave the most.

Reply from Jo on September 4, 2007

Gloria,
I truly believe that the children with severe disabilities are often “very high souls” who are here to teach the people they touch on this planet about love. I have personal experience as my older brother was born with spinabifida and all of its attending infirmities. Wow, did he ever teach me and everyone he came in contact with about love. I used to agonize over the fact that he was placed in a state institution when he was 13 until I began to understand, only recently, how the souls in that institution needed his love medicine, too. So I agree with Gloria, Pam. Your niece gave the most.

Reply from Pam (fortheloveofGodde) on September 5, 2007

Wow, what a wonderful perspective … she certainly appeared to be happy most of the time. We often wondered what she “heard” or “saw” when she would suddenly smile or laugh for no apparent reason. Apparently she was communicating with other souls on a much higher level than we could perceive.

Thank you Gloria and Jo. Certainly learned something new today.

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