The Cider House Rules

One of my favorite movies is The Cider House Rules, starring Michael Caine, Charlize Theron, and Tobey Maguire.

It is based on the book by John Irving, and John Irving also wrote the movie script.

The title is wonderful and significant.

The official tagline and plot for this movie are so off the mark:

Tagline: story about how far we must travel to find the place where we belong.

Plot Outline: compassionate young man, raised in an orphanage and trained to be a doctor there, decides to leave to see the world.

Frankly, whoever wrote the tagline and plot outline didn’t have a clue as to what the movie is really about.

If I were writing the tagline, I would say it’s a story about being out of the box, for it is a story of being your own person and about many kinds of love in unexpected places and making your own rules.

The movie takes place in Maine in the early forties when there were still orphanages. Orphanages had a bad rep, but, oh, in this orphanage — in this orphanage, the children loved and were loved. And more than that!

You know how God in Heavenletters™ so often says we don’t know who we are, that we’ve been taught that we’re not much? Not in this orphanage. Not here.

Dr. Larch (Michael Caine), the director of the orphanage, would read to the children after they were tucked into bed, and when he left the room, he said good night to the children this way: “Goodnight, you princes of Maine. You kings of New England.”

Can you imagine growing up and being told you are a royal being? What would our world be like then?

Posted by Gloria on February 28th, 2008 under these topics
Your Personal Questions to God, Heaven Letters, Godwriting Journal

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6 Replies

Reply from Jochen on February 28, 2008

Unimaginable. But it’s going to happen. And when we look back then, perhaps this time of change, now, will be our fondest memory.

Reply from Gloria on February 28, 2008

Ah, I think you’re right. What an insight, Jochen.

Reply from Jack van Raders on February 28, 2008

It has already happened; Gloria, Queen of Heaven Letters !!
Same as Paradise is here already. Recognize the beauty in everything and we have arrived. Love Jack

!!!

Reply from Pearl on March 1, 2008

Hi There. Maybe this story is a dream and some one feels that maybe someday this dream will come true. Michael Caines’ character is addicted to the gas. He also has his illusive dreams. One day he goes too far trying to make his dreams come true. The effort kills him phisycally. If we dream too hard and too much maybe the dream could not be good for us, because if it happens too fast we could not handele it. Pearl.

Reply from Jacqueline on March 2, 2008

Gloria,
This is one of my favorite scenes in a movie, the scene where Michael Caine puts his charges to bed with that beautiful line “Goodnight you Princes of Maine, you Kings of New England.”

What a way to go off to sleep knowing your caretaker thinks you are so grand and wonderful!

Jacqueline

Reply from Gloria on March 6, 2008

Dear Pearl,

I have wanted to respond to you since I read your post, and am sorry to have taken this long.

Did you see the movie, dear one? I think you did.

Did you see that Dr. Larch’s dream was of oblivion?

It seemed to me that the movie was about love. Dr. Larch was pure love, and that’s what he was. He radiated the love and beauty to and from those children.

He did many things that are frowned on and that we wouldn’t do. We wouldn’t become addicted to ether. We wouldn’t falsify medical records. We wouldn’t keep someone out of military service by saying he had a heart condition. We wouldn’t perform abortions.

Yet Michael Caine’s character came from so much genuine love, that we can only love him. Except for the ether addiction, everything he did he did with love. In the context of the movie, his addiction could have been an addiction to chocolate for all it mattered to me. It just made me feel more love and compassion for him.

In life, I would be horrified that a doctor was addicted to any drug. To my mind, in the context of the movie, it didn’t matter. Dr. Larch could have died from a car accident or anything at all, and his love was the same. It happened that he died from another kind of accident.

I thought the movie was magic because, at least for me, it took away all my judgment from all the things I would ordinarily disapprove of.

If oblivion was a dream of his, he had bigger dreams than that, and he made them come true. Happy children and incredible harmony in the orphanage, that he could prevent some unhappiness, that Homer was spared military service, that Homer did become a practicing physician etc.

God tells us that dreams are good. We have to have them.

With love and blessings,

Gloria

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