Point of View II

There is so much more I’ve thought of on this topic since the first entry was written about who is really richer, one with a lot, or one with little.

So here are my additional thoughts:

Henry David Thoreau, the famous transcendentalist, lived in a cabin in the woods. He called his land Walden Pond, and he wrote about this beautiful time in the woods with exquisite detail. This is the one thing I remember from his book that I read thirty years ago:

Walking in the woods, he came across a remarkable stone. Very beautiful. He carried it into his cabin and found a ledge or window sill where he could put it and look at it and admire its beauty.

In a few weeks’ time, however, he noticed that the beautiful stone was collecting dust. He wasn’t going to put his time and attention on dusting when there were so many walks to take on Walden Pond. And so, he took the stone, and threw it outside. And so Thoreau is known for his simplicity.

I have a story to tell you about a time I spent in the woods.

Before Heavenletters, I sometimes kinda had to get away from it all. For a couple of summers, I rented a cabin in the woods for a week or two. I had no TV. I had books, and I had Sunshine and Ginger, my two precious dog friends to keep me company.

Here’s what I stocked the kitchen with:

One cast iron frying pan that doubled as a baking sheet.

One pot that also doubled as a mixing bowl.

One fork, knife, and teaspoon, and one wooden spoon to stir with.

And I had simple basic foods with me.

I knew what I had, and I knew where everything was. I didn’t have to hunt through cupboards. Dishes never piled up. The counters were always clear.

I won’t tell you how many pots and pans and foodstuffs I have crammed into my kitchen now, and I won’t take pictures of my counters and post them here either!

There was one more thing I noticed about my time in the woods.

At home, I just had to have flowers in my house. I was unhappy if I didn’t have flowers. At home, I would even go to the railroad tracks and pick brown-eyed Susans and put them in vases and jars and fill almost every room with them.

In the cabin in the woods, however, surrounded by wild flowers, I had no need nor desire to pick flowers. All I had to do was go outside my door or look out the window, and see a feast of flowers and growing things, and, so, my flower craving was satisfied.

Just a little more to tell you:

My father came from Russia and talked of the Russian winters. His family lived on a farm. To heat the house there was some kind of brick fireplace that served as a stove, and they brought the cows and sheep into the house for the warmth they provided for the winter. And my father and his brothers slept on top of the brick stove in the winter to keep warm.

Now, here I was, his daughter, a teenager in America, and I wanted to buy a sweater for looks!

You have to understand my father was generous, and he never denied me anything I wanted.

When I asked for some money to buy a sweater, he spontaneously blurted out: “But you already have a sweater!�

In his life, sweaters were for warmth. He listened to me about how I had to have a certain sweater that would go with a certain skirt etc. Graciously, he gave me the money for the sweater that I couldn’t live without. I do not remember this sweater, of course, what color it was or what style it was or what there was about it that I had to have. But I do remember my father’s simplicity.

These entries could have been called The Simplicity of Having Less.

Here’s what I will end with:

Decluttering has become a big business. Closets are too full. We have too much stuff. I understand Oprah just had a show about decluttering.

Isn’t it obvious, that when one lives a simple life, there is no clutter to deal with in the first place?

Posted by Gloria on May 1st, 2007 under these topics
Purely Personal, Godwriting Journal

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3 Replies

Reply from Trish on May 1, 2007

If it’s not simple it is not truth. That’s my motto. Simple is not easy though, particularly in western civilization. That is our challenge. Let’s face it, it’s a fun challenge :)

Reply from paula on May 3, 2007

Dear Gloria,
this entry reminded me of my mother, who told me that when she was a little girl, they used to sleep on top of the stove they had at home. Her family was really poor, and eventhough we were a little better off, we never thought of asking for anything extra. When we could have half an orange or an apple, it was a feast for us children. Now my children won’t wear anything that isn’t fashionable. We are so full of ’stuff’ that at times I feel I’m choking, but I can give away only my own stuff and I have to respect my family’s free will. Sometimes, I need to go out just to breath. So, I understand what you mean.

Reply from Pedro on May 10, 2007

Simplicity and dettachment go hand in hand I think. I’ve also learned that by letting go of all the mental value we’ve given “things” as if things equalled true success; which to me is being dettached and balanced, that way if won’t matter whether you have or not material possesions, if will not affect you internally. The big house, the convenient cars, and the bank account which secures our future, in other terms also known as “The American Dream”. That’s no dream to me, it is only a system man has created period. The choice is yours to live that way as if GOD himself intended for us to spend our lives working hard for it. Suffering to achieve succes is what we’ve been lead to believe our purpose should be. Even world religions are about that, they’ve portrated Jesus suffering his whole life for us, so we have this guilt embeaded in our minds that if he suffered to that extent,ours didn’t even compare and it’s OK to spend life that way, and we relate life with suffering.
So wrong. The day I stopped living that way, the way of the world and started to take it easier in life, I automatically felt relief, internal peace, I slowly removed the connection I myself gave things in the first place, because as the rest I also thought happiness came with material abundance, but only stress did, trying to keep up with more and more. Now I want to go back to the super humble life I had before coming to the US in pursuit of the American Dream.
My energy and focus have rerouted torwards feeling that serenity of less stuff to worry about, and I’m loving it so much, I’m learning after years of EGO driven living; which only brought anger and suffering to not let anything outside of me affect me internally.
Today on the way to work something incredible happened as if I created the situation for myself as a self test. Going at about 65-70 mph with the flow of traffic on the highway I was thinking of how wonderful all this was, we being responsible for our lives, how creation only puts in front of us situations that resonate with our internal vibrations, and as I’m driving I conciously started to create that vibration telling myself from now on every day will be as I wished it would, and even if something I didn’t wish for came up, I would go throu it as though going thru water, and even picture a situation where on the side of the highway I saw myself with car trouble but still keeping my balance and still relaxed and feeling good about life, not cursing anyone for it, kept driving in a very relaxed state when another slide of thoughts crosses my mind, tires, how old are my tires, do I need to replace them soon, and so on….when all of the sudden a sudden hard rattle starts shaking the car badly, vibrating intensely and pulling the car in one direction, never paniqued, just went eith the flow the car was taking, slowly breaking and not resisting the pull until coming to a complete stop on the shoulder. What I had just envisioned a minute ago occured, and also went thru it as I intended to if it ossured. It took me 20 minutes to change that tire and didn’t affect my day at all.
It is true that when we lear to control our mind, then and only then we’ll know enlightment.

LOVE,

PEDRO

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